Tips Honed Emotional Intelligence Since The Early
Saturday, October 10, 2009
FOR grow optimally, not only nutrition, education, and moral values must be instilled. Emotional intelligence for your baby should begin to be sharpened as early as possible.Every person in the world has a personality, character, and different emotions. Similarly, in infants (under five years). Character children at this age is determined by what they saw and heard. More and more young children to listen or see the injustice in the environment, it will make children more emotionally unstable.
If he did not see direct injustice or violence in their environment, television becomes a productive media makes children can not distinguish changes in her emotions. The inability of children to distinguish emotions, usually marked by nature like anger that is difficult to control.
Children suddenly felt like excessive or sudden silence without knowing the reason and penyebabnya.Tingkah behavior usually starts from a desire to imitate what they see. Mimic anger at the cartoon character, for example, or see the tears in the soap opera character-soap opera.
And it was to express the children with their way. Then as a smart parent, you must be observant look healthy or not children have emotions. If the child is often angry without reason, crying for no reason or remain silent no matter who becomes the trigger, immediately fix changes that occur.
The way was not too difficult. Parents are advised to simply explain to the child seringsering of emotions such as what is being viewed.
Broadly speaking, there are two main things in a child's emotional intelligence, which recognize and manage emotions. The first step is to teach emotional intelligence to introduce various types of emotions to the child by saying the kinds of emotions
Simple tips in teaching emotional intelligence is often mention various types of emotions to the child directly. For example a child's pout, then the parents can assert that emotional situations, for example by asking, "Brother frown, what was upset? What pissed brother because my mother forbade watch television?" Thus, children are guided to get used to recognize her emotional state and the cause of that emotion.
The more often children hear the kind of emotions and triggers, the child will be taught to judge for themselves what kind of emotion he has
The method is actually called the concept of emotional intelligence in Indonesia is still not much demand and not much is known parents. However, in America such as emotional intelligence was popularized by Daniel Goleman in 1995 ago.
In America parents are increasingly aware and convinced that the success of the child is no longer sufficient with the technical skills and scientific knowledge. But also with the ability to control themselves and live in a society, including the ability to recognize their own emotions.
Another way to introduce emotional intelligence to the baby is to show different pictures, or comment on the situation, whether in magazines, television, or other media. For example when he saw television where a character is sad because a fight with another character, then the parent should say, "Oh, what a pity, certainly he is very sad because her friend's naughty acts". The same thing can be done also when reading fairy tales.
Parents need to repeatedly mention the emotional situation of the characters in the story. Besides introducing various types of emotions, at the same time, children also learn the things that led to the emergence of these emotions. For example one of the sad feelings of the characters because cheated or insulted the other characters.
Parents also can also provide a moral assessment of the situation, such as insulting is a bad and evil deeds, and children have learned the moral values of a behavior.
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